The WHY Matters
Hey friends, this is Jessica and Will from WorldTowning. You’re listening to the podcast that shares the highs, the lows, and the “what the heck just happened” of our decade-long full-time travel lifestyle and how it has changed us. On The WHY Matters, we dig deep into the WHY behind our choices and the positive results they leave. If you are ready to spread your wings, have a laugh, and take the insights of full-time travelers into your everyday life, then this podcast is for you.
The WHY Matters
#31 - A Year Without Sex - The WHY Matters Podcast
In this episode of The WHY Matters Podcast, we unpack the unplanned year-long dry spell that reshaped our relationship - from hiking the Appalachian Trail in separate states to sharing a one-room hotel with our teenage son. Through candid stories and hard-won insights, we explore how intimacy evolves (or collapses) under extreme circumstances, and why physical connection is about far more than sex.
Drawing from our decade of full-time travel and unconventional living, we dissect the language of desire, the silent impacts of deprivation, and the creative ways we kept our bond alive - even when traditional romance felt impossible. Whether you’re navigating a dry spell, long-distance love, or just the daily chaos of family life, this episode offers a lifeline for staying connected when life gets in the way.
@02:18 Trail Separation – How distance changed our intimacy
@08:45 Tiny Space Reality – Sex life in one shared room with family
@14:22 Normalizing Dry Spells – No such thing as a perfect couple
@19:37 Sex & Science – How deprivation affects relationships
@25:51 Creative Solutions – Bathrooms, bread runs, and more
@31:06 Kids & Desire – Why we're open with our son
@36:44 Small Gestures – How we stayed connected (cheese > roses)
@42:15 Your Challenge – Break one intimacy barrier this week
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